Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love. But I don’t think so, I think plainness is the fate of love, just like death is our fate, we face the fate of love will be plain. The only thing we can do is to cherish the time together as much as possible, and make the ordinary as possible as possible.
Having said such a long list, it is to pave the way for this suburban self-driving tour that my husband and I have known each other for 14 years. My husband and I are both authentic Beijing children. He lives in Chaowai and I live in Chaoin. It took us 14 years from acquaintance to marriage from freshman registration to now. 14 years, how many 14 years can a woman have in her life~ I dedicated my best youth to this silly boy~~
We finally got married in November this year. We are all advertisers, and we are usually very busy at work, so we basically have no time to go out to play. This time, my husband said that he gave me a surprise, and drove the newly bought car to go out to relax. The journey is not far, but the heart is warm~~
Before I left, I prepared for several days and bought a lot of things for camping online, including tents, sleeping bags, moisture-proof pads, picnic pots, gas tanks, food and drink. It was stuffed full~ The weather on the day of departure was very good, and the sun was shining on my body to keep it warm. Take pictures before departure, sometimes a man really acts like a child, even a small toy can be photographed for half an hour~ This is what I like most about him, hehe.
The route we chose this time is relatively biased, mostly country roads and winding mountain roads. After all, driving the Ranger, taking too many paved roads is the biggest waste of it! I am used to seeing the reinforced concrete in big Beijing, I just want to see some different streams of water with him~
When I came out to play this time, my husband basically brought all the photography equipment he could bring, because we are all advertisers, so there are a lot of equipment for taking pictures and cameras, plus the things I prepared for camping, the car is basically fully loaded~ Good Xiaomu has enough space, no matter how many things you put in it, you are not afraid! Otherwise, we can only give up some things.
After leaving Beijing, I went all the way north, stopping and stopping on the road, which was very relaxing and pleasant. Looking at the profile of his driving, he suddenly felt like returning to his school days. My him~ is still full of juvenile feeling, secretly happy in my heart!
It’s snowing in the mountains, taking a breath of cold and fresh air, the whole person is much more relaxed, living in the fast-paced big Beijing, it’s time to take time out to let yourself go, feel life, and feel the love around you~
The scenery along the way is so beautiful that you can stop here quietly in the vast snowfield. Embracing with my husband and quietly admiring the snow-covered scenery, as if this is not a suburb, but a small town in Switzerland! My husband’s generous shoulders are my greatest support, and this feeling of happiness is really good. Husband~ I just want to be lazy and rely on you all the time.
Time is too cruel, suddenly, we have walked hand in hand for 14 years. From two irascible young people in Beijing to a middle-aged middle-aged man who soaked wolfberries in a thermos. We learned a lot and got older a lot. Fortunately, time has passed, and we have not become greasy, haha. Cherish, depend on and understand each other, sometimes thinking about love is actually quite simple, we are happy together even when times are bad. Although all love is dull in the end, the little happiness in the plain is sweeter than sugar.
The mountain is covered in snow and covered with a vast expanse of whiteness. Occasionally, you will meet cowherds from nearby villages on the mountain. I am very envious of this kind of life. The pace is very slow and comfortable, and it is leisurely. Seeing this kind of scenery feels very embarrassing. I also told my husband that when we are old, we will find a small house in the nearby village for the elderly, so that we can herd cattle and sheep if we have nothing to do. Husband said, rest, just you, you are the life of the local mistress, hahahahaha. Look at my ranger, isn’t it pretty decent in the snow!
Passing by a large windmill, there is a strange beauty. The clouds are so low that you can touch them with your hands. I didn’t expect to see such scenery around Beijing. It seems that with someone you love by your side, no matter how ordinary it is, it becomes a landscape.
If you want to see the most beautiful scenery, you have to “do not take the usual road”, pass by a small river that has not been completely frozen, and drive the Xiaomu to walk on flat ground. Maybe this is the advantage of the hard-core four-wheel drive that my husband said, but change The two of us “two drives” almost fell, haha…
My husband and I are both very poor, and we will always have endless jokes together. So I was always laughing, he sat on the roof of the car and told me you should not sit on it, I asked him why, he said you are a daughter, the car on the roof can’t bear the weight of “a thousand catties”, hahaha… …
On the small road in the forest, the cows in the nearby villages did not see the cattle herders. Perhaps this is the most simple trust of human beings, even if they are free to graze, they will not be lost.
Looking back at the road when we came down, I feel that the two of us are really wild enough to pick these roads that almost no one drives. I also want to thank Xiaomu for his reliability. He can easily walk through these bad roads and bring us here…
There is an open space in the forest that is suitable for camping. I discussed with him and went camping here today. I took out the equipment that I have searched online for a long time, tent sleeping bags, moisture-proof pads, folding tables and chairs for camping, and picnics. The cooking pot and gas tank are ready. They are basically half-cooked ingredients bought in the supermarket. I cooked two bowls of noodles with the steam stove I found. Although the ingredients are relatively simple, I see him eating happily Satisfied, what to eat with him is really not important, being together is the happiest moment, and simply cooking noodles once feels very happy.
After eating, we basked in the sun at the campsite, recalling the past and looking forward to the future. Before we knew it, it was getting dark. It was our first self-driving trip after we got married~ We were very happy talking and laughing all the way. We gained a lot from our first camping and picnic. What we eat is really not important, the most important thing is to be happy. After discussing with him, we will drive when we have time in the future. We have fallen in love with this way of relaxation.
